Keep the Stories Coming

Ok, so we are up to the big 26 people Brett was cheating on me with – 24 girls and 2 boys! It’s just mind blowing – being cheated on with 1 person is bad enough – but 26! Is this asshole for real! This girl is from WA – so he gets far and wide!
Here is story number 26:
“I used to talk to countrybloke86 on POF. I only just recognised him when I watched the ACA video. I spoke to him a fair bit but was very suss about him because he would never send photos of his face and he could never really keep a story straight. He would only ever message me late at night and want to talk about sex. I personally found him to be a bore and felt like he just couldn’t hold a conversation. He said he owned a farm and I don’t own any property and I’m not very country so I don’t think I appealed to him very much
If I had of known he had a partner I would have told him where to go!
Good on you for exposing him!”
Thank you to all the people who have sent me their stories so far. PLEASE keep them coming! xx.

This Week’s AMAZING Stats

So I have just checked the Facebook page and website stats for the last week. And they are nothing short of amazing! I’m so happy that my message is still spreading and that the warning about Brett is getting out to so many people!

So, this week:

  1. A total of 147,108 views of the website and 71,141 visitors to the page – that’s 59,670 views 30,176 visitors since this time last week! ws1
  2. 1,000 shares of the” target=”_blank”>’My Story’ post on the Facebook page.WS2.jpg
  3. A total of 2,868 likes of the  Facebook page.ws3

Thankyou for all your help and support. Please keep helping me to stop Brett Joseph!


Email to Businesses

While I was cleaning out some of the things that Brett left here after I booted him I found a stack of business cards – and I mean 100+. So I decided to send an email to each and every one of those people or businesses – and this is what I said:

“I have recently found your business card (in a pile of 100+ business cards) while going through some things that my ex-partner, a man by the name of Brett Joseph, left at my home when I booted him out 3 weeks ago when I found out that he was a convicted fraud and a con man (amongst many other things).


You may know him or may have had dealings with him while he was using one of his many aliases – Brett Jay, Brett Jones, Brett Johnson, Brett Ingham, Brett Kepitis, Brett Inglis, Brett Williams, Brett James, James Brett, Reg Brett, Hunter Joseph, Hunter Baillieu, Brett Joseph Ingham Macdermid, Brett Armstrong, Brett Star, Brett White, Tom Waterhouse, Lockley Christian, Matty Johnson or many business names – King Ranch Australia, King Ranch Australia Pty Ltd, Joseph Pastoral, Joseph Pastoral Co, Hunter Valley Pastoral Co, B J Joseph, Brett Joseph Pastoral. He has, for many years, also claimed to be an agronomist for Bayer – which he is not and has never been.

The reason for my email is to warn you that his man is a criminal and a con artist and has left a trail of destruction across the country of  years. He has ripped off many businesses (mostly in rural areas) during that time and has also targeted young women (again, mostly in rural areas) and bled them dry too.

You can find more information by visiting, and

If you have had dealings with this man then please either contact me or, if those dealings are in any way criminal, please make a statement with your local police. I understand that a lot of businesses write off smaller losses, but there is now an active investigation relating to this man, so it is vital that every criminal offence, no matter how small, is reported. If every business or person who has experienced some sort of criminal behaviour at the hands of Brett reports one criminal activity then I am certain that that there will be something the Police can do to bring him to account for all he has gotten away with for so many years.

If you are lucky enough to have not had any dealings with Brett then I would appreciate you forwarding this email to as many people and businesses as possible. If as many people as possible get the message about who Brett is and what he is capable of. They may have had dealings with him to report or it may help to stop them from becoming another of Brett’s victims in the future.

Regards, Daisy”


This morning I received a message from another girl who Brett was cheating on me with. It’s just like water off a duck’s back now  and every time I receive another message I’m just like “oh – another one”.

But this morning’s message takes Brett’s tally to 23 girls and 2 boys – THAT IS 25 PEOPLE HE WAS CHEATING ON ME WITH!

At best he was talking to them (not just normal talking – I mean inappropropriate or explicit talking – talking that you wouldn’t do with a person that you just wanted to be friends with). At worst he was sleeping with them. Now I understand that not everyone’s definition of cheating is the same as mine. For some people it is a purely physical thing. For others it is an emotional thing too. In my book, cheating is doing any or all of of these things when you have a partner. These are just some of the things that Brett did to me while we were together that I consider to be cheating:

  • Talking to other girls/boys on dating sites;
  • Messaging girls/boys and saying that you and your girlfriend are “rocky” and that you are “discreetly seeing what else is out there”;
  • Sending pictures of your appendage to other girls/boys;
  • Receiving compromising pictures from other girls/boys’
  • Telling other girls that you see them as your future wife;
  • Making plans to visit other girls/boys for dates and/or to stay with them;
  • Telling other girls/boys that you want to build a life with them;
  • Denying that you have a partner – even when specifically questioned about who I was (often he told people that I was his “good friend” or “office manager”);
  • Having active profiles on and actively using Tinder, gaymatchmaker, grindr, POF or any other dating website;
  • Actively seeking out other people on social media to be anything more than a friend;
  • Any intimate act with any other person – from kissing and beyond!

So – 25 in a month! Maybe by Christmas we will hit the big 100!


New Twitter Account

I have opened up a Twitter account to try to help spread my message even further. If you have Twitter please check out my account and follow me – @stopbrettjoseph


Watching The ACA Video From Overseas

Hi all,

I have had a few people contact me to ask how they can watch the A Current Affair story if they are overseas. Unfortunately the video on the A Current Affair  website can only be watched in Australia.

But it’s ok – I have fixed the problem! If you are not in Australia and would like to watch the video, you can do so by clicking here.


Website Updates

Hi all,

Just a quick note to let you all know that I have just finished updating the Other People’s Stories and Messages of Support pages of the website. So take a look if you haven’t already!


A Game Of Numbers

A summary of the story so far in numbers:

22 – The number of girls (that I know of) that Brett was cheating on me with (click here to view my definition of cheating);

2 – The number of boys (that I know of) that Brett was cheating on me with;

1 – The number of girls (that I know of) that Brett slept with while we were together;

20 – The number of girls (that I know of) who have a similar story to mine;

6 – The number of girls that I know for a fact have seen my page and have been saved from Brett as a result;

8 – The number of Australian states that Brett has had victims in (that’s right – all of them);

100 – The number of people who have contacted me with stories about Brett – mostly people who knew him at college or uni or while he was at school, through previous girlfriends or who were talking to him on Tinder or some such dating site but who managed to call him on his bull before he could do any damage;

14 – The number of people who have contacted me who have either been stalked by Brett or know somebody who has been;

20 – The number of aliases (that I know of) that Brett has used over the years – Brett Joseph, Brett Jay, Brett Jones, Brett Johnson, Brett Ingham, Brett Kepitis, Brett Inglis, Brett Williams, Brett James, James Brett, Reg Brett, Hunter Joseph, Hunter Baillieu, Brett Joseph Ingham Macdermid, Brett Armstrong, Brett Star, Brett White, Tom Waterhouse, Lockley Christian, Matty Johnson;

– The number of businesses or companies (that I know of) that Brett has been using over the years – King Ranch Australia, King Ranch Australia Pty Ltd, Joseph Pastoral, Joseph Pastoral Co, Hunter Valley Pastoral Co, B J Joseph, Brett Joseph Pastoral. Details of those businesses can be found by clicking here and here;

20,000 – The amount of money I estimate my relationship with Brett has cost me – but I’m still digging and still finding stiff (click here for more detail as to how);

2,677 – The number of people who like the Facebook page right now;

96,581 – The number of visitors to since it was started; and

1 – Girl who is determined to warn everyone about Brett Joseph so he can’t get away with what he has managed to get away with for far too long!


Amazing Website Stats and a Message for Brett

If these figures from the website are anything to go by I would say that the word about Brett and my story are spreading like wildfire. Which (I hope) means that people from everywhere will recognise him for just who and what he is when he pops his head up from here on in. Which means that he will be hiding out at his parents house like the little rat he is for quite a while longer! I can’t even begin to thank you all for helping me to get my message out there. Without you all it would not be possible – and I am so very greatful to each and every one of you!

And a message for you Brett. If you or your parents think that this is just going to blow over and the social media and mainstream media stuff will die down – THINK AGAIN! I’m just getting started and have no intentions of stopping until everyone recognises your face and knows just who and what you are! I’ll do everything in my power to make sure you don’t do to anyone else what you have done to me and so many others for so long!

Brett’s Dating & Social Media Profiles

As you all probably assume, Brett had/has A LOT of different social media profiles and online dating profiles. His preferred social media name is brettjoseph1 and dating name countrybloke86 and I have found many profiles online using these names, which I have then posted to the Facebook page.

A few days ago I found Brett’s Twitter account – which was in another fake name that I had not heard of before – Hunter Baillieu Joseph! He had a number of tweets about Lara Worthington, Elizabeth HurleyShane Warne, the royal wedding and his is trip to the UK for the royal wedding! AS IF YOU WOULD BE INVITED TO THE ROYAL WEDDING BRETT – IT’S  LAUGHABLE!

So I posted it to the profile to the Facebook page and the following morning he had changed his name to Brett Joseph and had deleted) all the tweets.

So I can surmise from this that Brett is keeping a very close eye on the Facebook page and website and is changing and/or deleting his accounts as I make them public!

The following profiles been changed since being posted on my pages:


Since posting this profile to my pages he has changed his name from Hunter Baillieu Joseph to Brett Joseph and has deleted all his tweets (which were all full of rubbish anyway).

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His profile used to have cover photos of himself in the mounting yard when Winx won the 2015 Cox Plate and it looked like this:

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Now it looks like this:


The following profiles have been totally deleted:

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This one was deleted as soon as “Farmer” was asked if his name was Brett. Dead giveaway much?

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And this one hasn’t been deleted – but I suspect it will be as soon as Brett sees this post:


The fact that the asshole is deleting and changing his profiles as I post them  is amazing – because now I know that he is watching this page and can see how far and wide it is going, all your stories and how much support I have from you all to keep working to stop him from ever being able to do to another what he has done to me! I hope that you can see just how determined I, and so many others, are to stop you, you vile little creature!

We can also surmise from all these profile changes and deletions that Brett is in fact still on Facebook and online – despite his father telling ACA that he was not online and had shut down his Facebook account. Which means, unsurprisingly, that Wayne was lying.